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Release, February 2005 CARE Press Release, February 25, 2005 STATE AGENCY SUPPORTS EXPANDING
ADOPTIONS Gays
put family first after election trauma Like a lot of gay Americans, Bev Davidson felt mauled by the Nov. 2 elections, when her home state of Michigan and 10 others wrote bans on gay marriage into their constitutions. But within weeks, the Ann Arbor social worker got a little surprise that recommitted her to fighting for gay equality: She learned she is finally pregnant. "The Momma Bear in me is making me get up," she says. In state after state, gay people are coming out of election-trauma hibernation, as legislatures reopen after a year that featured the most anti-gay election in history and the first state-authorized gay weddings. Picking ourselves up, gay Americans are planning rallies and lobbying days, hosting evening coffees so gay constituents can share their life stories with state lawmakers, joining state groups and considering running for state office. (To contact your lawmakers, go to www.hrc.org ) Key state legislatures to watch are in California, where lawmakers may make history by passing legislation ending marriage discrimination, and Massachusetts, where lawmakers will decide whether to hold a 2006 referendum on keeping gay marriage. But every state's lawmakers will be asked to address the real needs of gay constituents like Bev Davidson. Michigan legislators will be urged to outlaw anti-gay discrimination at work and elsewhere, to ban bullying at school, and to explicitly permit second-parent adoptions. When lawmakers arrive in Lansing to be sworn in on Wednesday, they'll be welcomed on the capitol steps at 11 a.m. by the first-ever, opening day "Protecting Our Families" rally for gay equality. Meanwhile in gay-friendly Rhode Island, a neighbor of Massachusetts, legislators will again be asked to grant gay couples the freedom to marry. Teensy Rhode Island will be fascinating to watch. Many Massachusetts folks work there. That's already sparking fairness challenges, as Massachusetts married residents demand equal treatment from Rhode Island employers. Massachusetts also borders Connecticut, New Hampshire, New York and Vermont. The constant mingling of that region's people is spreading the word of how comfortable Massachusetts is growing with its breakthrough and how wrong it is for other states to exclude gay couples from civil marriage. Where is the Northeast headed? Consider a poll conducted shortly before May 17, when same-sex marriages began in Massachusetts: Connecticut residents favored gay marriage, by 49 to 46 percent, the University of Connecticut's polling center found. And 52 percent said states should be required to recognize the marriages of gay couples who move there. Overall, 32 percent favored full marriage, 41 percent preferred civil unions and only 25 percent said gay couples should have no legal recognition. When Michigan lawmakers meet Bev Davidson, they'll be seeing and hearing firsthand why gay families need protection. As she'll tell them, last summer she and Alexandra Matish wed in Canada. Their public employers offer partner benefits. And Matish went onto Davidson's better health insurance. They had planned to shift the family, including their baby -- lovingly nicknamed The Bean due to its size and unknown gender -- to Matish's health plan so Davidson could be a stay-at-home mom. But Michigan voters spoiled that option. Prop 2 not only bans recognition of gay marriages, but also of any "similar union," throwing into court whether public employers can keep offering partner benefits. Matish can't even put Baby Bean on her health plan. Why? Michigan doesn't yet allow her to become the child's second legal parent. "Lawmakers will be dealing with a feisty pregnant woman," Bean's bio-mom vows. "We're going to do everything we can to protect our child." Greet your state lawmakers with a friendly "Welcome back." Then put them to work protecting every family. You can reach Deb Price at (202) 906-8205 or dprice@detnews.com |
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